I don't see any problem with it, and it's most certainly healthier than common relationships. I mean, if you're religious then I can understand if you have a problem with it, but it's not like it's hurting you. And hell, even if it does pull a rom-com, isn't that a good sign? That this is going to be a healthy relationship between two people who just wanna have some fun? I mean, no date pressure, no rules to abide. Looks don't matter, because as much as a guy or girl could get rejected over their looks, I rarely see people unwilling to hang out with a person because of looks. I've personally never been in a hanging and banging relationship, but two of my friends are. They hang out all the time, they're close as friends, but one day they said "Hey, you have boobs, and I like them. Wanna have sex with me? Whenever we all hang out, they don't seem to have that awkwardness that comes with two people in a relationship.
Yes, but with certain conditions.
Benefits of Having Sex With Your Best Friend
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What if my friend doesn't see me the way I see them?
Friendships add so much spark to our lives—helping us find humor and possibility in spells of misfortune, and cheering us on in stretches of celebration and transition. We swap stories over meals, and fill moments in time with laughter and like-mindedness—adding to the family we may or may not have. So what happens when you find yourself attracted to one of your confidantes.
Best friends are hard to come by. These are people in your life who you've grown to trust, value, and love, likely for years. But what happens when that last L-word, love, turns into another: lust? Is having sex with your best friend actually a good idea? Compared to people who meet as strangers, Cocharo says couples who start as friends—especially best friends—have a much better foundation. People who just get attracted to someone they see across the room have a lot of pheromones, Cocharo says. Ideally, Cocharo says the conversation would come before you actually decide to have sex with the person. This approach puts you in a less vulnerable position phew : You're not telling them you're in love with them or want to marry them. You're just gauging their interest. Of course, sometimes the sex happens first especially if there's alc involved.